Heartbroken Can I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back

Heartbroken Can I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back

If you have just been through a breakup, you’re probably asking yourself, ‘Can I get my ex boyfriend back?”  several times a day.  Every relationship is different, so every causes of break up is different.  But a number of things you can do to help you get your ex boyfriend back.

Be nice.

That might go without saying, but some people think nagging is the best method of getting what they want. But It’s not.  If you nag, complain or even act unpleasant, you are only reminding your ex boyfriend of things he wants to get away from.  If you make things uncomfortable every time you see him, he will only want to see you lesser.

The very last thing you want to do is drive him farther away.  Be as pleasant as possible whenever you’re around your ex, unless the only way to do so is to be completely fake.

If you’re thinking, can I get my ex boy friend back by pretending this way or that manner? Then you will have to ask yourself why you want to be back with your ex boyfriend.  You might be better off finding a person who doesn’t make you need to pretend.

Provided you can be pleasant, then any problems you experienced before the separation probably don’t seem as vital now.  You will probably find yourself wondering why can't you be nicer when you were together.

You can’t change the past, but you can change the way you handle this break up. Keep in mind that later on when you’re back with your ex.  Tell him and let him know that you have taken him for granted. He likely took you for granted as well, but don’t expect him to admit now.

Other methods you might be thinking of trying could either be disastrous or they could work in your favor.

Can I get my ex boyfriend back if he has a girlfriend?

This might be the toughest situation to overcome. It's not only difficult to be alone with him if he has a new girlfriend, he’s focused on the new relationship.  You’re part of the past, but not a priority.  Being nice right now is crucial.  You need to show him exactly how wonderful you are and how much he’s missing.

Can I get my ex boyfriend back by trickery?

No matter what kind of deception you’re thinking about, even if it doesn’t seem damaging—forget it now.  Even the most innocent-seeming lie or exaggeration could backfire later. So What’s the point of trying to figure out how to get him back just to lose him a little while later because he discovers your dishonesty?

Can I get my ex boyfriend back by making him jealous?

It’s possible, but it could also backfire making him think you have moved on with life.  If you really feel the need to date, then do so if you need that to become happy.

But if you’re considering dating someone such as your ex best friend only to make your ex boyfriend jealous, then that’s definitely not fair to your date, or you.  Games such as this usually don’t work.  Be honest , sincere with yourself and others, and you will have an improved chance of fixing your relationship with your ex.

Those that i have listed are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back. They are the initial steps I followed when I lost the love of my life. And frankly these aren't my original ideas. I turned to T 'Dub' Jackson when I had no idea of how to get my true love back.

T 'Dub' authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called "The Magic Of Making Up". And you know, it worked like magic for us. Now we are more in love than ever.