Sunday, 16 October 2011

Can I Get My Ex Girlfriend Back

Can I Get My Ex Girlfriend Back

If you’re wondering, “Can I get my ex girlfriend back?” then the breakup probably wasn’t so devastating that you think your relationship can’t be saved.  You’ll have to hope she feels the same way.  If any damage was caused during the split that you should apologise for, now’s the time to say you’re sorry. Being sorry and sincerely showing it's a good opening move.

Can I get my ex girlfriend back by showing my sensitive side?

Well, there’s no guarantee you and your ex will get back together, however the odds tilt more and more in your favor when you do things correct. Show her just how much you miss her, and how sorry you are.  Simply pay attention to what she does. But if your gestures of sorrow only make her to be angry—she throws away the roses or something dramatic like that, for instance—make changes to your tactics until you find that something she responds to.

If flowers or cards frustrate her, for example, perhaps that’s because it’s easy to pick up the telephone and order flowers or buy a card that is written by someone else.  Try putting yourself in your ex shoes and then try to figure out something more appealing. You can purchase a blank card and write your own personal verse in it.  It doesn’t need to rhyme, in fact it’s better if it doesn’t.  Make sure you honestly express how you feel.  Or pick flowers and present her using a bouquet you put together yourself.

A common complaint among women is that men aren’t thoughtful.  Were you thoughtful during the relationship?  Now you might be wondering, can I get my ex girlfriend back by being thoughtful?  Not necessarily, but it’s one more step toward your goal of winning her back.  Each and every positive thing stacks up, making it easier and easier for your ex to come back to you. Don’t expect things to happen right away.

If you spent your relationship rarely doing thoughtful things, or you only did them in the beginning, she’ll probably be doubtful of the things you do now.  You need to be patient, and keep up your efforts. Don’t be frustrated or angry.  Do the thoughtful things as it feels good to make your ex happy, not because you’re working toward a goal.

Can I get my ex girlfriend back by dating other women?

If it’s already been quite a long time since the breakup, and you’re still focusing on being thoughtful, a casual date seems harmless and may make her wish she was your date, but go too far and it could actually backfire.

Can I get my ex girlfriend back if she has a boyfriend now?

The odds are against it, but if you can show her that she’ll be more happy with you compared to the new boyfriend then you’ll have a good chance.  Being thoughtful will go a long way toward showing her that.  Even if it seems hopeless, don’t give up.

Whether or not if it appears she’s moved on, continue to  send her a card you wrote just wishing her a great week.  But don’t look as if you have any expectations from her.  Your thoughtfulness might really impress her.

One more thing my friend, the points made above, are only just one step in the equation of getting your true love back. The important thing to have a step by step action plan that will lead you in your heartfelt pursuit.

Frankly, that's what I did when my true love dumped me. I followed a plan authored by T 'Dub' Jackson. When my cause was almost hopeless and I was dieing inside, it hauled me up by my bootstraps and helped me get my life's love back. It's called "The Magic of Making Up" and you can check it out at: http://www.magicofmakingup.com

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